1.31.2007

World's problem solved!


My younger son, 8 years old, has been having fun lately reading Shel Silverstein poems. He was reading this poem for me tonight and, I thought, wow, finally someone had a great solution to end the world's misery. Enjoy reading!

Small as a peanut
Big as a giant,
We're all the same size
When we turn off the light.
Red black or orange,
Yellow or white
We all look the same
When we turn off the light.
So maybe the way
To make everything right
Is for God to just reach out
And turn off the light!







I am so happy today and I don't even know why!

That's what my, 10 year old, son said today. It's interesting, kids need no reason to BE happy. But we, adults, are constantly looking for REASONs to BE happy.

1.29.2007

Let it go


Negative thoughts and feelings are like a spark that falls on your coat sleeve. Brush it off and it will do no damage, let it linger and it will burn a hole.

Let it go...

Practice forgiveness. You practice over and over, until it becomes second nature. Everything needs practice!

Let it go..

Have you noticed that people you love can often do no wrong in your eye? and even if they do, it's easy to forgive them. The people you hate can do no right, and no matter what they do, they're not forgiven.

Let it go..

It does not matter at the end...All hurt feelings are illusions, it's our made-up stories, it's unreal.

Let it go..

1.28.2007

Optimism

It gives me a great pleasure to discover that more and more "science world" is focusing on the positive nature of human beings. It great to read that Psychology is exploring humans's nature at their best. The following is a fascinating report from Harvard Magazine regarding the Science of Happiness:

For much of its history, psychology has seemed obsessed with human failings and pathology. The very idea of psychotherapy, first formalized by Freud, rests on a view of human beings as troubled creatures in need of repair. Freud himself was profoundly pessimistic about human nature, which he felt was governed by deep, dark drives that we could only tenuously control. The behaviorists who followed developed a model of human life that seemed to many mechanistic if not robotic: humans were passive beings mercilessly shaped by the stimuli and the contingent rewards and punishments that surrounded them.

A watershed moment arrived in 1998, when University of Pennsylvania psychologist Martin Seligman, in his presidential address to the American Psychological Association, urged psychology to “turn toward understanding and building the human strengths to complement our emphasis on healing damage.” That speech launched today’s positive psychology movement. “When I met Marty Seligman [in 1977], he was the world’s leading scholar on ‘learned helplessness’ and depression,” says Vaillant. “He became the world’s leading scholar on optimism."


read the rest here

1.27.2007

Zeal

Wisdom is the prefect blending of intelligence and love. Love without intelligence may do much undesigned harm- the spoiled child is a case in point - and intelligence without love may ultimate in clever cruelty. Zeal without discretion is proverbially mischievous.
Emmet Fox

Don't you think this "zeal without discretion" is the root of the problem the world is facing now?

1.25.2007

Ipod creator's advise

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't letthe noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

This is a part of the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005. It's an inspirational talk. You should read the whole thing...specially if you are in your 20's!
Update: I have found a video of this speech, click here. See, you don't even have to read the whole thing!


1.23.2007

sshhhhh!


Learn to be silent.
Let your
quite mind
Listen and absorb.

Pythagorus (580-B.C. - 500 B.C.)

All man's miseries drive from not being able to sit quietly in a room alone.
Blaise Pascal (1623-1662)

Two mathematicians, whose lives were separated by 2 millennia, talked about the importance of silence. It has been estimated that the average person has 60000 separate thoughts each and every day. Do we really need all those thoughts? Lets quiet down for a moment....sshhhh!

1.22.2007

Happiness is a skill

To scientists, he is the world's happiest man. His level of mind control is astonishing and the upbeat impulses in his brain are off the scale. Now Matthieu Ricard, 60, a French academic-turned-Buddhist monk, is to share his secrets to make the world a happier place. The trick, he reckons, is to put some effort into it. In essence, happiness is a "skill" to be learned.


Studies have shown that the mind can rise above it all to increase almost everyone's happiness. Mr Ricard, who is the French interpreter for Tibet's spiritual leader, the Dalai Lama, took part in trials to show that brain training in the form of meditation can cause an overwhelming change in levels of happiness.

Mr. Recard also said, "Our life can be greatly transformed by even a minimal change in how we manage our thoughts and perceive and interpret the world. Happiness is a skill. It requires effort and time."

source: click here

Billionaire and Spirituality


Did you know that there is a research being done on examining greed and virtue in human behavior? I was surprised when I read this information in the Los Angeles Times last weekend. John Templeton, a British Billionaire who founded one of the world's most profitable investment funds, funds research on the science of spirituality, including the power of forgiveness, love and trust. Can you imagine that? I am glad at least one billionaire is taking the matter of spiritualluty seriously.

1.21.2007

Half Lived Life

"For as this appalling ocean surrounds the verdant land, so in the soul of man there lies one insular Tahiti, full of peace and joy, but encompassed by all of the horrors of the half lived life"
Herman Melville (1819-1891)

Melville was an American novelist, short story writer and poet. His best known for Moby Dick where the above quote was taken. He wrote this in the 19th century but his word still ring true. The same life force that flowed through many sages' and prophets' lives, also flows through us today. Don't ignore your inner voice, silent spark of life that we all have but don't n let them out. Let's not be stingy with our love and joy. Just ask yourself, are you living your life as fully as you were meant to live?

1.19.2007

Power of Choice



Every man builds his world in his own image. He has the power to choose, but no power to escape the necessity of choice. If the abdicates his Power, he abdicates the status of man, and the grinding chaos of the irrational is what he achieves as his sphere of existence - by his own choice.

Ayn Rand

Ayn Rand is my favorite thinker; She was a provocative and visionary writer. I believe She was the smartest woman in America (1905- 1982). Even though she claimed to be an atheist, but she was more spiritual than many "religious" people I have seen. She believed in power of human beings and power of the mind. She is best known for developing Objectivism, and her support of laissez-faire capitalism. Her political views were strongly individualist which I love. If you want to know her, read Atlas Shrugged and you will be transformed. I have to thank my dear Rev. Tom to introduce me to her.

1.18.2007

My all time favorite Ziggy cartoon..

1.17.2007

Power of Charity

Did you know that there were some 68,000 charity foundations in the U.S. in 2005, controlling assets in the range of $500 billion and making some $34 billion in annual grants? I came across a book called The foundation where it talks about the ineffectiveness of these charity group. The author writes how big grants are being signed off without ever asking anyone- grantees or members of their own staff- precisely how a given program or grant is supposed to achieve its goal and without measuring, later , whether it has succeeded. wow! $34 billion is a lot of money. To put it in perspective,the regular budget of the UN is some $1.3 billion per year, and the administrative budget of the 15-country European Community amounts to some 4.5 billion.

1.16.2007

To "Be"

"We must 'be' before we can 'do,' and we can 'do' only to the extent which we 'are,' and what we 'are' depends upon what we 'think.'"

Charles Haanel (1866 -1949), regarded by many as the "Father of Personal Development". I will tell more about him later. For now, just mentally digest his words