A few good thoughts from Lao Tzo for loving couples:
Nurturing your love
is like tending a small garden.
If you keep pulling up the plants
to see if the roots are growing
your will harvest nothing.
If you focus on your troubles
you give them added power.
Step aside as would a martial arts master.
The troubles still exist,
but your are not unbalanced by their blows.
They lose their power to disturb.
they become food for growth.
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Don't you think scrutinizing every detail of any relationship makes one crazy? keep your perspective clear.
